William "Bill" Petty, Sr., Hendersonville, TN., June 18, 2016. On
March 27, 1939, Stephen and Ella (Big Mom) Petty welcomed their son,
William Harold, into this world in the walls of a boxcar on the
rails of Old Hickory. Brother to Ruth and Bob, and raised in a home
that he helped build one bent and straightened nail at a time on
McArthur Drive, deep in the heart of Dog Patch, friendships that
remain to this day were firmly cast for Billy Petty in Miles of
journey and with a lot of Luck along the river -- digging up skulls,
catching a shark and trading cars - all set to a backdrop of music
as you laid a foundation playing bass with your buddies and danced
on the Opry Stage. As "Bill", you applied the strength in your hands
to all that you did: grocery store sweeper, shot putter, discus
thrower, auto upholsterer, grenade launcher. Then, on the dance
floor of the American Legion Post in Inglewood, you met her, a
lovely young woman with dark brown hair who loved to dance as much
as you - Jane Ann Tucker. The rest was history…and the future for
those of us lucky enough to know you. Barrels and stakes became a
passion on the back of a spotted named Apache, and a job at DuPont
offered stability as your family of 2 became 3 with the arrival of a
son and a slight change to your signature. You became a Senior, for
this little boy would claim the honor of your name - Billy. Three
years later, 3 would become 4. A beautiful daughter, Tracy Leigh,
trotted her way into your life and your heart. You worked the only
way you knew for 37 years: hard…sometimes too hard. And, with Jane
ever by your side, you demonstrated over the course of more than 50
years your own unique language of love. Through your powerful,
grip-crushing hands, you passed along experience and skills.
Camping. Fishing. Riding a bike. Flying a kite. Shooting a
basketball. Hitting a softball. Then, driving a car. Changing out
brakes or spark plugs. Setting points. Building a deck. Driving a
boat…as it sank…in the lake. Holding a child…especially a
grandchild. You played four or six strings at every opportunity.
Truth be told, there are some that would not know you without the
Fender Mustang in your hands, or 9 Pound Hammer ringing from every
guitar you ever held. Your bass voice bellowed in Southern Gospel
celebration. You laughed, and we laughed with you. Jokes and stories
and puns were ever present, as was the raucous, belly-shaking laugh
that broke loose before you could even finish. The Liars Club was
never the same. And…you danced. Oh, how you danced. Your strong
hands gently leading Mom across the floor in an endless cycle of
steps and turns and spins. You danced your way into the lives of so
many, and your memory dances in our minds even now. Coach. Mentor.
Operator. Story Teller. Life Coach. Best Friend. Advisor. Mr. Fixit.
Dr. Quack. Child of God. Papa. Daddy. Husband. Bill Petty, Sr. In
lieu of flowers, the family has requested monetary donations to
White House High School, 508 Tyree Springs Road, White House, TN
37188 in memory of Bill Petty, Sr. Please be sure to indicate that
your gift is in memory of Bill Petty, Sr. The Life Celebration was
held earlier this week at Hendersonville Funeral Home.
Published in Tennessean from June 21 to June 24, 2016 |